[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/spsn-lbc.cz\/kdyz-je-clovek-dospely\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/spsn-lbc.cz\/kdyz-je-clovek-dospely\/","headline":"Kdy\u017e je \u010dlov\u011bk dosp\u011bl\u00fd","name":"Kdy\u017e je \u010dlov\u011bk dosp\u011bl\u00fd","description":"By\u0165 by v t\u00e9 kter\u00e9 rodin\u011b panovaly vztahy sebelep\u0161\u00ed, stejn\u011b p\u0159ijde den, kdy \u2013 jak se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 \u2013 maj\u00ed mlad\u00ed vylet\u011bt z hn\u00edzda. I kdy\u017e v lidsk\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b by m\u011bly rad\u011bji odch\u00e1zet ne\u017e \u201elet\u011bt\u201c. Ov\u0161em v\u017edy z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na okolnostech.Je nasnad\u011b, \u017ee by se rodi\u010de m\u011bli starat o d\u00edt\u011b, dokud je toto mal\u00e9 a logicky nejen…","datePublished":"2018-12-26","dateModified":"2018-12-26","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/spsn-lbc.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/spsn-lbc.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2d2e3fdaba6370eba756fb4048c695326686ff29010a0df4d58b27c20544521d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2d2e3fdaba6370eba756fb4048c695326686ff29010a0df4d58b27c20544521d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"spsn-lbc.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/spsn-lbc.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a338434_w2431_t1551180375.jpg","url":"https:\/\/spsn-lbc.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a338434_w2431_t1551180375.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/spsn-lbc.cz\/kdyz-je-clovek-dospely\/","wordCount":622,"articleBody":"By\u0165 by v t\u00e9 kter\u00e9 rodin\u011b panovaly vztahy sebelep\u0161\u00ed, stejn\u011b p\u0159ijde den, kdy \u2013 jak se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 \u2013 maj\u00ed mlad\u00ed vylet\u011bt z hn\u00edzda. I kdy\u017e v lidsk\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b by m\u011bly rad\u011bji odch\u00e1zet ne\u017e \u201elet\u011bt\u201c. Ov\u0161em v\u017edy z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na okolnostech.Je nasnad\u011b, \u017ee by se rodi\u010de m\u011bli starat o d\u00edt\u011b, dokud je toto mal\u00e9 a logicky nejen z pohledu z\u00e1kona, ale i z pohledu sv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed nesamostatn\u00e9, neschopn\u00e9 p\u0159evz\u00edt za sebe plnou zodpov\u011bdnost. Je logick\u00e9, pokud se o d\u00edt\u011b staraj\u00ed rodi\u010de do jeho plnoletosti, a n\u011bkdy i po dosa\u017een\u00ed t\u00e9to, pokud takov\u00fd mlad\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk je\u0161t\u011b pokra\u010duje ve studi\u00edch na n\u011bkter\u00e9m vy\u0161\u0161\u00edm stupni \u0161koly.Ov\u0161em pot\u00e9 u\u017e by se m\u011bla situace m\u011bnit. Takov\u00fd mlad\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd u\u017e m\u00e1 po \u0161kole, by se m\u011bl za\u010d\u00edt osamostat\u0148ovat, pokud tak pochopiteln\u011b neu\u010dinil u\u017e d\u0159\u00edve. Neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee by si musel ihned po obdr\u017een\u00ed v\u00fdu\u010dn\u00edho listu, maturitn\u00edho vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed nebo vysoko\u0161kolsk\u00e9ho diplomu sbalit sv\u00fdch p\u011bt \u0161vestek a j\u00edt nezn\u00e1mo kam, aby tam \u017eil nezn\u00e1mo jak a nezn\u00e1mo z \u010deho, ov\u0161em u\u017e v tuto chv\u00edli by se m\u011bl p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm poohl\u00e9dnout po n\u011bjak\u00e9 t\u00e9 aspo\u0148 trochu solidn\u00ed pr\u00e1ci a za\u010d\u00edt p\u0159isp\u00edvat na dom\u00e1cnost, respektive se i jinak pod\u00edlet na jej\u00edm chodu. To aby nebyl nav\u011bky on\u00edm mal\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem, vis\u00edc\u00edm rodi\u010d\u016fm jako k\u00e1men na krku.A postupn\u011b by se doty\u010dn\u00fd m\u011bl za\u010d\u00edt poohl\u00ed\u017eet i po vlastn\u00edm bydlen\u00ed (by\u0165 logicky rad\u011bji op\u011bt s p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm nepatrnou pomoc\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f coby t\u011bch, kdo se v\u00edce vyznaj\u00ed a nedopust\u00ed, aby jejich potomek p\u0159i tomto ud\u011blal n\u011bjakou hloupou chybu), hledat si n\u011bjak\u00e9ho partnera, s n\u00edm\u017e bude kr\u00e1\u010det bok po boku v pr\u016fb\u011bhu dal\u0161\u00edho \u017eivota. A jednoho dne pak \u201esbohem a \u0161\u00e1te\u010dek\u201c.Jen\u017ee tak tomu nejednou nen\u00ed. Nejeden z dne\u0161n\u00edch mlad\u00fdch bere tak jaksi automaticky  ze strany sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f jako samoz\u0159ejmost a nem\u00edn\u00ed se ho dobrovoln\u011b vzd\u00e1t. A\u010d u\u017e velk\u00fd, je st\u00e1le je\u0161t\u011b t\u00edm mal\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem. T\u00edm, kdo si chce u\u017e\u00edvat a povinnosti v maxim\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e s lehk\u00fdm srdcem p\u0159enech\u00e1 jin\u00fdm.A co potom po\u010d\u00edt s takov\u00fdch t\u0159ic\u00e1tn\u00edkem nebo osobou je\u0161t\u011b star\u0161\u00ed, je\u017e si st\u00e1le je\u0161t\u011b u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 v\u0161ech v\u00fdhod mama hotelu a nem\u00edn\u00ed se jich z\u0159\u00edci? Vyhovuje mu, \u017ee m\u00e1 v\u017edy co j\u00edst, \u017ee m\u00e1 uklizeno, vypr\u00e1no, \u017ee bydl\u00ed nejednou zdarma nebo \u201eza hubi\u010dku\u201c?Jsou zkr\u00e1tka chv\u00edle, kdy je t\u0159eba \u201echytr\u00e9mu napov\u011bd\u011bt a hloup\u00e9ho postr\u010dit\u201c. Kdy je zkr\u00e1tka takov\u00e9ho p\u0159est\u00e1rl\u00e9ho mamin\u010dina maz\u00e1nka t\u0159eba tla\u010dit k zapo\u010det\u00ed vlastn\u00ed existence. Aby si za\u010dal zkou\u0161et sv\u016fj samostatn\u00fd \u017eivot, nejl\u00e9pe s n\u011bjak\u00fdm sv\u00fdm partnerem a budouc\u00edm \u017eivotn\u00edm druhem. A aby jednoho kr\u00e1sn\u00e9ho dne dosp\u011bl k uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed si toho, \u017ee u\u017e nen\u00ed mal\u00fd a \u017ee u\u017e dok\u00e1\u017ee \u017e\u00edt i bez maminky a tat\u00ednka.Co\u017e je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed \u00fakaz. N\u011bco daleko norm\u00e1ln\u011bj\u0161\u00edho, ne\u017e kdy\u017e se p\u00e1n ve st\u0159edn\u00edch letech st\u00e1le je\u0161t\u011b dr\u017e\u00ed m\u00e1miny sukn\u011b.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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